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Article from Volume 7 Number 2 pp. 164–174

First evaluaton of the Down Lisburn Trust Befriending Scheme for young people leaving care

NADINE McBRIAR, Social Worker, Adolescene and Aftercare Team. LORRAINE NOADE, Senior Social Worker, Adolescence and Aftercare Team. BEVERLEY RINGLAND, Senior Practitioner, Adolescence and Aftercare Team

ABSTRACT

The Down Lisburn Trust befriending scheme was initially set up in October 1998, this piece of research was conducted in April 2000 and is the first evaluation of the scheme.
The purpose of this research study was to evaluate the benefits of the befriending scheme for young people ‘looked after’ or leaving the care of Down Lisburn Trust. This was achieved by collecting the retrospective views of the young people and their befrienders in relation to how the befriending scheme has benefitted them. As the befriending scheme is a relatively new project, the subjects used in the study were from the first intake of participants on the scheme. This comprised of 5 young people and 6 befrienders. In order to obtain the relevant in formation, questionnaires were devised for the young people and the befrienders.The findings of this research study indicated that the befriending scheme benefits those young people in care and leaving care, by providing them with someone to talk to and help them pursue their interests. Also it has ensured there was someone to support them through difficult familial relationships, life in care and/or life after care. The findings also highlighted the need for clearer procedures and follow up in relation to the ending of befriending relationships to ensure that this already vulnerable group of young people are not damaged further.
The findings of this study agree with the findings of other research studies dating from the early 1980's, regarding the plight of young people in care and leaving care. The Adolescence Team was established in 1990/91 and provides an integrated, specialised service to young people aged between 14 and 21 years old living within the Down Lisburn Trust area. It also provides a supported continuum of care, which enables young people who have been or are in care to live independently and safely in the community It aims to do so by providing the following services; individual counselling, family work, assessment, mediation/negotiation, preparation for leaving care, aftercare support, group work, and child protection investigations. The following is an overview of the first evaluation of the scheme.
 

INTRODUCTION

The Befriending Scheme
In October 1998, the two part-time aftercare workers within the Adolescence Team identified that many of the young people leaving care or ‘looked after’ by the Trust were estranged from their families, have experienced isolation and have limited support networks. It was also identified that these young people were reluctant to accept aftercare support from their social worker and would prefer to be supported by someone unattached to social services. As a result, the befriending scheme was established to alleviate some of these problems. It was the first befriending scheme for young people leaving care in Northern Ireland. The scheme recruits, trains and supports volunteers to befriend care leavers.
Sir William Utting (1997) in his review of the safeguards of children living away from home, highlighted the lack of support provided to young people being discharged from care and the consequent loneliness and fear experienced by them after leaving care.

Recruitment of volunteers
Volunteers for the scheme are recruited by the Down Volunteer Bureau and Down Lisburn Trust. Each volunteer completes a personal profile and undergoes a police vetting process. The befriending scheme coordinators then consider the suitability of each volunteer to undertake the role of a befriender and inform them of their decision. If selected, the volunteer undergoes training.

Training
The training covers, how to apply an appropriate Code of Practice as a befriender, how to develop a child centred approach when working with young people, an understanding of Trust policies and procedures in relation to befriending, self-protection for befrienders and guidelines on how to deal with difficult adolescent issues.
The training is provided over the course of one day and at the end of the training, each volunteer is given the opportunity to opt out of or commit to the scheme.

Matching
The matching of befriender to young person is done by the befriending co-ordinators. With the help of their colleagues in Family and Child Care, the co-ordinators identify the young people in the Trust who are willing to participate in the scheme and become familiar with the young person’s circumstances and locality. The personal profiles of the befrienders are examined and similar interests, qualities and requirements are identified between befriender and young person.
The young person and the befriender are then introduced by the coordinator who establishes the ground rules, agrees expectations and practical arrangements. These are reviewed by all parties at regular intervals.

Supports
The befrienders can contact the co-ordinators at any time for advice and support. The co-ordinators provide supervision in order to monitor progress on a monthly basis by telephone and provide the befrienders with the opportunity to discuss the relationship. Groups have been established to provide the befrienders and young people with the opportunity to discuss concerns and suggest improvements to the scheme.

What to do in an emergency
The befrienders are provided with contact numbers for the coordinators and out of hours contact numbers. During the training they are advised how to react in different situations which may arise with young people, and how they can access supports. The young person is made aware that if they disclose anything which may cause harm to themselves or another person, the befriender is obliged to inform the co-ordinator. With this exception of the above clause, anything discussed between the befriender and young person remains confidential.

AIMS AND OBJECTIVES OF THE RESEARCH STUDY

The aim of this study was to ascertain the benefits of the befriending scheme to the young people participating in it. The objectives were to assess the frequency and quality of contact, the befriending relationship and the supports gained from it by the young people. We thought it helpful to discuss the main points from the relevant literature and legal context before setting out the study and its results.

Adolescent development
Coleman and Hendry (1990) define adolescence as a transitional process in which the individual passes from childhood to maturity. It differs from childhood in the nature of the challenges encountered and the capacity of the individual to cope with them. Alongside the physical changes occurring during early adolescence, young people are also faced with a number of psychosocial challenges.Maluccio (cited by Pinkerton and McCrea, 1999) stresses that the main requirements for successful psychosocial development are continuity, stability and mutuality in relationships. Through the experience of such relationships the young person develops the capacity to cope with psychosocial challenges. However, research has shown that the majority of adolescents in need of social work services experience inadequate familial relationships, poor social skills, unresolved feelings about their past and low self-esteem. Instability and change were the most common features in their lives (Department of Health, 1996).In 1965, John Bowlby identified a link between the quality of attachments in the early stages of life and subsequent emotional development (Aldgate, 1991). It is also widely accepted that how an adult responds to a child’s attachment behaviours affects the child’s emotional development (Fahlberg. 1994).
Studies have shown that children placed in care at a late age have higher levels of social, emotional and behavioural disorders than those placed as babies did. These difficulties are frequently associated with issues of attachment (Howe, 1995).
Children who have experienced multiple moves may not have experienced the continuity in relationships or had the opportunity to experience the stable attachments, which enhance self-esteem and identity formation. Interrupting relationships may also hinder the ability to form new ones. The development of close interpersonal relationships is important for the child’s continued development and sense of well being (Fahlberg, 1994).

The legal framework
Article 35 of the Children (NI) Order 1995 places a duty on Trusts to advise, assist and befriend looked after children in preparation for when they cease to be looked after (DHSS, 1995).
There is virtually no financial requirement placed on Trusts to provide for young people leaving care and many of the new provisions are powers as opposed to duties. The legislative provisions are minimalist in terms of the support being made available to young people leaving care although they do represent an admission on the part of the state that young people leaving care need support in making the transition to independent living (O’Sullivan, 1996).

Young People Leaving Care
Most of the research suggests that the majority of young people admitted to care have experienced impoverished material conditions. It also found that when taken into care young people were denied knowledge about their backgrounds, which is important for identity formation and emotional adjustment (Triseliotis, 1983). Many of the young people also felt that they were not afforded any responsibility and decisions were often made for them. The research further indicated that many of the young people valued having someone who was willing to listen, be tolerant, understanding and trustworthy. However the majority of young people experienced movements within care and as a result this hindered the continuity of relationships (Utting and Lambert, 1981; Thorpe, 1974; Godek, 1976 cited by Stein and Carey, 1986).
On the other hand research has also shown that young people leaving care appear to be expected to have greater responsibility for their lives than young people do in the general population. Care leavers are faced with a number of difficult transitions at the same time; finding accommodation and employment, adjusting to new circumstances and relationships, coping with loneliness and having a sense of identity (Stein and Carey, 1986).
From their research Stein and Carey (1986) found that a common difficulty experienced by the young people was budgeting. Low educational attainment was found among many of the young people who experience multiple care placements and school moves. This also
affects their ability to find adequate training or employment. Many of the young people also felt the stigma attached to being in care, while in school and when looking for employment (Stein and Carey, 1986).
Upon leaving care, many did not want the continuation of a formal social work relationship, but they valued relationships with former care workers which had become friendships.Stein and Carey (1986) argue that more consideration should be given to continuity of relationships during and after care. Loneliness and depression were common experiences among the small number moving from foster and children’s homes to independent living.
In the early 1990's, Pinkerton and McCrea carried out research into leaving care in Northern Ireland. For many of the young people, it was found that in the early stages of leaving care, there was significant informal support, however formal supports were limited and decreased rapidly over time. The aim of social work contact appeared to be similar to that found by Stein and Carey in their 1986 research, which was to monitor and provide information. In only a minority of cases was the work focussed on preparation for independent living. Task-centred work and befriending were used initially, however after 5 months, task-centred work decreased and the befriending role increased.
Biethal et aI., (1995) found that schemes similar to the befriending scheme, helped young people develop friendships and provided information about local resources. It was found that those with a secure sense of identity also had highly developed social networks and relationship skills. According to Stein (1997) such schemes appear to have played an important part in befriending socially isolated young people as well as helping them develop relationships with others and encourage assertiveness.
The Department of Health (1996) found that in order to make the transition from childhood to adulthood, young people need a stable home base, an adult to champion their cause and a mentor. A champion is someone who advocates on behalf of the young person and ensures plans and decisions are implemented. A mentor is defined as a trusted, caring adult who will serve as a positive role model and will motivate, support and empower the mentee to access advice, education, training and employment.

Mentoring Schemes
Mentoring schemes have become increasingly popular in the UK. The Dalston Youth Project (DYP) is a youth mentoring and educational support project for disadvantaged and disaffected young people in Hackney, London. It aims to develop young people’s basic educational and employment skills, build confidence and link them with existing services. Findings from the DYP indicate that it is beneficial to recruit and train more mentors than needed to allow for mismatching and dropout. The DYP influenced the development of the Turning Point Project in Northern Ireland, which is based on the DYP and has the same aims.
In the USA the Big Brothers/Big Sisters mentoring programme pairs unrelated adult volunteers with youth from single parent households. The evaluation indicated the importance of the co-ordinators providing mentors with support, intensive monitoring of the mentoring relationships and ensuring that the young person’s preferences are taken into account in the matching process (DIVERT Annual report, 1998-1999).

The Down Lisburn Trust Befriending Scheme
The aim of this research was to collect the retrospective views of young people and their befrienders in relation to how the befriending scheme has benefited the young people. The young people were interviewed using a semi-structured questionnaire.
It was agreed that six young people and their six befrienders from the first intake of participants on the befriending scheme in 1998 would be asked to participate in this research study.
The methodology used was found to be effective in terms of obtaining the relevant information. The young people and the befrienders readily provided in-depth information in relation to their befriending relationships.

THE FINDINGS

The young people in this study were aged between 15 and 18. All but one of them have experienced either residential or foster care and have encountered educational difficulties as a result of being in care. All have experienced family or relationship problems.

The Care Experience

"I hated having to tell people I had a social worker and that I had to live in a children’s home. I wanted someone to talk to and do things with. They moved me so far away that I had nobody to talk to".

Resource limitations may have been a factor in having to accommodate young people several miles away from their home and school, however these young people highlight the importance of ensuring that a young person’s education is not disrupted when in care as this may affect their life chances after care.
It is also evident that the care experience impacted on the self-esteem of young people in the study as they indicated that they resented having to explain to their peers, why they were missing school and having to leave. This resulted in further stigmatisation.

"I used to have to make up stories to my friends when they asked why I was moving away from my family and missing school".

Prior to having a befriender, many of the young people in this study admitted to having limited supports. The majority were experiencing difficulties in their familial relationships and although many of them had a good relationship with their social worker, all of the young people identified the need for someone else to talk to and share their problems with.

"I get on really well with my social worker and would tell him if I had a problem... I am also really close to my mum but sometimes I feel more comfortable telling my befriender my problems because she listens and doesn’t tell me what to do or not to do. She lets me decide. Although I get on well with my social worker, I just don’t like having to tell people I have a social worker because they treat you differently".

Research by Biehal et aI., (1995) in relation to the effectiveness of leaving care schemes also indicated that the majority of the young people had limited support networks prior to participating in the leaving care schemes. It also indicated that many of the young people in their study wanted someone to care, listen, trust and take an interest in their lives. This was also evident here.

"Being in care made me worse. Nobody listened to us so we just did what we wanted. You never felt that anyone really cared about you. I wish I had had a befriender when I was in care because it has really helped me over the past year. Just having someone there to listen and someone you can trust. It’s great".

The befriending relationship
All of the young people shared similar interests with their befrienders. This was taken into consideration during the matching process in order to improve the quality of the befriending relationship. The befriending scheme also provided support for two young care Ieavers with children and it was apparent that the supportive relationships, which developed could be likened to other support schemes for young parents e.g. Homestart. Both these young people were unemployed and they clearly valued the presence and support from their befrienders.

"My befriender is really good to me. She spends most of her free time with me or looking after my son. She is more a friend than a befriender".

Four of the young people in the research study who were still in a befriending relationship, felt their befriender cares about them. This highlights how young people, who previously experienced relationship difficulties or felt let down by their parents and confused about their relationships, can form attachments to other people and benefit from them. Research by Stein and Carey (1986) indicated that common experiences among those young people, who have been living in care, included loneliness, isolation and the stigma associated with being ‘in care’. This was evident in the young people’s responses as to why they wanted a befriender.

"I used to argue a lot with my mum and thought she didn’t care about me but having a befriender has helped me to see that people do care".

When asked what has changed for them as a result of their befriending experience, the young people highlighted a positive change in relationships, an increase in support networks, confidence, assertiveness and the benefits of having the opportunity to discuss problems with someone who cares and wants to listen.

"My befriender encourages me to ask for what I want and I now know that I am entitled to certain things that I didn’t know about before".

"I have made new friends through my befriender. She also takes my son a couple of times a week so I can get out more. I am a lot more confident now than I was before".

The befrienders’ perspective
The majority of the befrienders also felt that the young person had developed confidence, become more assertive and were better able to handle relationships since the beginning of their befriending relationship.

"I’d rather encourage the young person to decide for herself. That way I am not telling her what she should or should not do".

One befriender suggested that the co-ordinators should meet with the young person and the befriender jointly on a regular basis to monitor the relationship. However, this befriender chose not to attend the support group and only engaged in supervision on one occasion. The co-ordinators never considered this option as part of the scheme as it was felt that formal meetings may make the young person feel that the befriending relationship is being subject to a certain amount of statutory control by Social Services, which is what most young people at this stage of their lives, generally want to avoid.
Another befriender suggested larger group outings of befrienders and young people, however, it is important to note that many of the young people valued the independence and privacy of this relationship.

C’s befriending relationship
‘C’ described how she resented having to move to a children’s home and then to a residential establishment several miles away from her foster family, friends and school. She admitted to finding it difficult to trust people as a result of this experience.

"I really enjoyed going out with her and we got on really well but she never phoned to say why she wouldn’t come to see me when I moved. I don’t understand it cos’ we liked the same things. If I still saw her I think we could have been good friends by now " when she stopped coming to see me, I don’t think she knew how upset I was. I didn’t want to move far away and I needed someone to talk to".

This situation highlights the risks associated with befrienders not committing. It is difficult however to ensure standards when working with volunteers. By encouraging the formation of close relationships there is always a risk of being let down. Commitment is reviewed on an ongoing basis through the process of supervision, however this does not appear to have been effective. This case demonstrates the importance of monitoring all the befriending relationships to prevent a damaging experience occurring for the young person or befriender.
The befriending scheme needs to have procedures to prevent a situation like this happening. Although the training includes guidelines for ending befriending relationships, there are no provisions to follow up the situation for the young person or befriender. For the befriending co-ordinators, this situation highlights the need for clearer procedures in respect of terminating relationships and tighter organisation of these procedures.
Overall, the findings demonstrate the scheme can alleviate some of the problems and issues facing young people in care, leaving care and experiencing family problems. It provides isolated young people with the opportunity to talk to, spend time with and share similar interests with a responsible, caring adult. It also benefits the befrienders by enabling them to experience working with young people and provides an increased awareness of the needs of young care leavers.

CONCLUSION AND IMPLICATIONS FOR PRACTICE

The main findings from the research reviewed prior to conducting this evaluation indicate that the majority of young people in care and leaving care experience multiple moves, loneliness, isolation, lack of stability and continuity in relationships, loss of friendships, the stigma associated with being labelled as ‘in care’ and disrupted education (Stein and Carey, 1986; Biehal et al., 1995, Pinkerton and McCrea, 1999). Overall the findings in this small study agree with the above.
In the past 14 years, nothing appears to have been done to alleviate the loneliness, isolation and stigma experienced by young people in care. We are still struggling to recognise and support this vulnerable group. Legislation and its’ guidance leave much provision discretionary and as a consequence, services have developed patchily. Frequent government reorganisation and limited resources continue to push preparation and aftercare services down the scale of priorities. This compounds young people’s feelings of low self-esteem. The findings have demonstrated however, that the befriending scheme alleviates some of the problems facing young people
in care and leaving care.
Although the matching process and the training for the befrienders have clearly contributed to the success of the scheme, the findings also indicate, that in order to prevent further damage to this already vulnerable group, there is a need for clearer procedures for maintaining and ending befriending relationship alongside tighter organisation and follow up of them. It is important that the befrienders honour their commitment and maintain their contact with the young person as many of them have previously experienced disrupted relationships.
All of the young people in the study whose relationship continued for over 6 months, benefited from the befriending relationship in terms of helping them with the problems they experienced prior to having a befriender. The findings have demonstrated that a befriender is beneficial when a young person lacks other forms of support. It is also significant that many of the young people prefer to confide in their befriender even when they have a good relationship with their social workers. This may be due to the feelings of stigma around having a social worker, being let down by the social services in the past or having numerous social workers. Advice appears to be more readily accepted from those who have not had a history of power in the relationship.
More funding is needed for the scheme to expand and to increase its’ resources in order to be able to enhance the present service and offer it to more young people in need. The care system needs to work in partnership with other statutory and voluntary sectors in health, education and housing to further support networks for this vulnerable group.
Evaluations of mentoring schemes throughout the UK and in the USA have provided suggestions for improved practice, which the befriending co-ordinators could introduce to the scheme. These suggestions include advertising for befrienders on a wider scale, recruiting and training more befrienders than needed to allow for mismatch and drop out and working alongside other agencies. Other evaluations highlighted the importance of intensive monitoring of the befriending relationships, providing befrienders with support, the need to ensure that the young person’s preferences are taken into account in the matching process.
In conclusion, the overall findings suggest that the scheme has been successful in achieving its’ objectives. It has offered the young people in the study the opportunity to meet regularly with a caring adult where friendships were developed, interests pursued and valuable life experience gained. Most of the young people in this study who have had experienced being in care or have been estranged from their families clearly indicated that they have been befriended and supported by the scheme.

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