THE INTERNATIONAL CHILD AND YOUTH CARE NETWORK

ISSN 1089-5701

Volume 10 Number 2 Summer 2001
Children Who Hate


Table of Contents

Rediscovering the Classic Book Children Who Hate

Minding the Children in 1951: Who Is Minding Them in 2001?
Nancy Belknap / 
66

About Fritz Redi and David Wineman
Larry K. Brendtro
/  70

Pioneer House: Reflections on Working with Redl and Wineman in 1947
Henry W Majer
/  71

A Half Century of Children Who Hate: Insights for Today From Fritz Redl
William C. Morse
/  75

Encounters with Anger

What We Want You to Know About Being Angry
Elisabeth K. Hess and Anthony M. Walker
/  79

Children in the American Gulag
Joan Braune
/  81

What Adolescents Stir Up in Me
Philippe I. Dupont
/  83

Will Kai Become a Skinhead? Cultures of Hate in Germany and the New Europe
Stephan Lhotzky
/  86

Healing Children Who Hate

Service-Learning and Character Education as "Antidotes"
for Children with Egos That Cannot Perform
Howard S. Muscott
/  91

Developing Tools for Reflecting on Counteraggressive Responses to Troubling Behavior
Frank J. Mosca and Deborah S. Yost
/  100

Juvenile Justice Reform and Treatment for Children Who Hate
Robin Troup
/  106

Children Who Hate Themselves
Lisa M. Shepard and Nicholas I. Long
/  111

Talking to One*s Self About Violence: A Review of Work by and About Lonnie Athens
John H. Hoover and Tammy Lynn Bailey
/  118

Promising Approaches for the Angry Child
Huda Aden and Sarah Leffler
/ 122


Editorial

Minding the Children in 1951:
Who Is Minding Them in 2001?

Nancy Belknap

Fifty years ago, Fritz Redi and David Wineman wrote Children Who Hate. In celebration of this anniversary, Reclaiming Children and Youth has dedicated this issue to reconsidering the state of troubled youth by applying Redl’s view to their worlds. This editorial provides a description of Children Who Hate and calls for scrutiny of the progress that we have made in troubled children’s lives during these 50 years. The article asks us to consider who listens — and how we listen — to children and youth today. Imagining different and better perceptions of troubled youth is a fitting tribute to Fritz Redl’s work. The articles by the authors who contributed to this issue reveal how Redl’s work continues to influence and permeate programs for and work with troubled children and youth today.
 

"How can I believe there is a butterfly inside you or me
when all I see is a fuzzy worm?"
—Trina Paulus,
Hope for Flowers
 

This issue of Reclaiming Children and Youth celebrates the 50th anniversary of the publication of Children Who Hate (1951) by Fritz Redi and David Wineman. These authors were intensely involved with the children and youth whom others were determined to "throw away". From the descriptions of their experiences found in this classic text, we can derive a prototype based on a humanistic orientation toward aggressive children that contains psychoeducational attitudes and techniques with which to effectively work with these children.

Children Who Hate is about young boys whose lives had been shattered and frayed. The initial challenge facing Redl and Wineman was to try to understand that which had eluded helping professionals for decades: how to help alienated children lessen their distorted views of life and develop self-control. From 1942 through 1946, ten aggressive boys who had been expelled from their communities for delinquent acts lived in an experimental residence in Detroit, Michigan. Aptly named Pioneer House, it was the place where Redl and Wineman "minded" the ten boys and observed the nuances of their behaviors, from each boy’s entrance into the house to his exit from it. Redl and Wineman soon discovered that it was not aggressive and destructive behavior that needed to be understood but "the problem of control ... and solidification of hatred into an organized department of shrewdly developed defenses (1951, p. 31). They shifted the emphasis of their inquiry from finding explanations for the boys’ behavior to studying the failure of the boys’ "control systems." Redl and Wineman learned by a trial-and-error life among these boys rather than from traditional scientific inquiries. They gained insights concerning the breakdown of the ego and defense mechanisms used by antisocial youth who could not live effectively in an adult-dominated society. During the four years at Pioneer House, shape was given to the concepts of the therapeutic milieu and the Life Space Interview. Anecdotes about and interpretations of the behaviors of the boys are revealing, and they parallel those behaviors of disenfranchised youth we continue to hear about today. Redl had the unique ability to turn every crisis into a learning event. He listened to the most challenging children rather than demanding that they listen to him. He reversed the typical adult command to children to "mind"; instead, he "minded" the children. Instead of following the old adage that children should be seen and not heard, he believed they must be seen, heard, and listened to. Indeed, Redl believed that each of these troubled children had "a butterfly inside," and it was his mission to help children and youth shed their "fuzzy worms."

Although much has changed in the last 50 years, many things have stayed exactly the same. In 1996, Long and Morse reminded us that our knowledge far exceeds our practices. Today the hatred of children and youth results from many of the same conditions as those surrounding the boys whose behaviors were chronicled in Children Who Hate. In the year 2001, children and youth are disconnected from caring and influential adults and from spiritual supports. They are bombarded by violence in both fact and media-concocted fantasies and threatened by society’s increasing "boot camp" mentality concerning the "best" remedy for their egregious behaviors.

Redi devoted his professional life to finding solutions — rather than punishments — for children who became victims of their early and pervasively destructive life circumstances. Menninger (1989) has indicated that rehabilitation is not about treatment per se, because recovery of individuals depends upon professionals’ attitudes about developing the person’s capacities. Redl would have agreed with Menninger. Moving beyond professionals’ preoccupations with the negative and focusing upon the psychological well-being of individuals was at the heart of the lessons offered in Children Who Hate.

Redl and Wineman brought to the attention of educators and psychiatrists that interventions for these children and youth who were being expelled from their communities had to be different from society’s overly traditional sentimental or harsh responses. These children were "beyond the reach of education and below the grip of psychiatric interview technique" (Redl & Wineman, 1951, p. 277). In Children Who Hate, Redl and Wineman expounded upon a unique perspective — that occasional and mild expressions of hatred are typical in the normal course of development. However, they noted that the typical youth they had studied was a boy "who had been reeling under the impact of cruelty and neglect to such a degree that the acid of counteraggression had eaten itself by now in the every linings of his adaptational system" (p. 26). These children who hated had their primitive expressions of hatred and aggression "hard-wired." There were no options for behaving otherwise, even when well-meaning helpers tried to provide support. Although these behaviors were acquired through no fault of the boys, the families, teachers, mental health professionals, and people in their communities soon gave up on them.

Redl and Wineman described the symptoms of hate: "No matter how their specific pathology of ‘hatred’ looks in the beginning, or which part of their personality has been most severely affected by it, the children who hate become an insoluble problem for the communities in which they live" (p. 28). Today we glibly refer to these troubled youth as children without consciences — those youth who do not feel remorse—or as sociopaths or superpredators. Gillogy (1997) defined a child who cannot care about self or others as someone whose soul has been murdered; that is, there has been a systematic destruction of his or her personal identity. The sense of anomie that results from the loss of personal identity was as acute for the youth about whom Redl and Wineman wrote so instructively in 1951 as it is for troubled youth today. Redl’s theories about recovering youth who seem beyond the grasp of anyone are timeless. Redl reminds us that in today’s fast-paced solution-oriented world, listening to children and youth is the only chance that communities have to recover them.

In 1966, Redl said,

All the impressive knowledge about children and their service needs, so easily "taken for granted" by ourselves, does not come close enough to the "action scene" unless we bring it forcibly to the attention of those who have the power to translate it into well-implemented reality. (p. 14)

Prothrow-Stith (1991) tried to bring about such attention when she identified juvenile and youth violence as the Number 1 public health problem in the United States. Despite all the outcries, we continue to teach our children to kill each other. When Redl was questioned at the conclusion of a costly National Institutes of Health project for aggressive youth that was deemed a failure, he said, "What worried us is that we are producing this type of child in very large quantities — sometimes as early as 6 years old and we don’t know why" (R. Greene, 1959, p. 1D). Today that is sadly prophetic. Our youth accept as normal that which used to repel. Some witness and seem immune to the destruction of their peers. In a recollection that evokes memories of the Columbine tragedy, a young man described the result of three years of constant heckling by his high school peers:

I got up and choked the kid behind me who just happened to be the most recent foe. This is in sight of every single person in that room, including the instructor ... Nothing happened to me. I was not reprimanded for being out of line just as no one had been for making my life a living hell. (Fransen, in Brendtro & Larson, 1999, p.132)

Fritz Redl observed, listened to, and took seriously everything that children did and said. Redl’s work endures because he believed in the inherent goodness of children and the badness of the events in their lives. His work continues to help us unravel the marvels of the hidden, frozen, and untapped potential of those disheartened youth who "continually bite the hands that feed them" (Brendtro & Long, 1996, p. 129). What would Fritz Redl be saying today in response to the current conditions for children and youth? Perhaps he would claim, as he did at a convention of professionals in 1962, that the United States has a "love of kids, neglect of children, and hatred of youth" (Redl, 1966, p. 9).

In paying tribute to Fritz Redl, it is fitting to use the words of Maxine Greene (1995), an educational and social philosopher: "To imagine things as if they could be otherwise may be a first step towards acting on the belief that they can be changed" (p. 114). Children Who Hate — indeed, all of Redl’s work — epitomizes this eloquent statement. In our field, it is tempting to lump youth who abuse, refuse, and confuse professionals into a homogeneous group and hope that from studying this pool of identities a cure will emerge. It is also tempting to give up on these youth. Redl taught us that each child is an individual and is worthy of a personal and respectful response. He put a face on each child with whom he worked. Imagining that circumstances could be different and better for each and every child is another of Redl’s enduring contributions. Troubled youth variously cooperate or obstruct; persist in a task productively or resist it destructively; are reasonable or rebellious, and momentarily brilliant and unable in the next moment. Although it is possible to believe that these young people are ready to learn more during their moments of cooperation, persistence, reasonableness, and brilliance, it is difficult to imagine success for them during their protracted periods of aggressive decay. The challenge that Redl undertook was to imagine that things could be otherwise during the child’s worst times. Long (1991) said that he believed that Redl was at his best when working with aggressive students.

Children Who Hate is as relevant today as it was when first published. It was the first book in the area of emotional disturbance that I was required to read as an undergraduate student studying special education. Today, after three decades as a teacher educator, I could present this book without title, author, or publication date to my students and they would easily assume that it is a current publication. Redl and Wineman’s ideas continue to serve as beacons of light during an increasingly dim period for compassion and patience toward children and youth whose intense hate turns to action in the face of life’s simplest frustrations.

Who is minding these children and youth? In keeping with the voice of Fritz Redl, the editors of Reclaiming Children and Youth answer by reminding people that "Children with emotional or behavioral problems often are blamed for their difficulties ... . They are hungry for hope, so those who believe in their potential will be most effective in working with them" (Long & Brendtro, 1992, p. 3).

It is in this spirit, as we celebrate the enduring work of Fritz Redl, that in this issue we listen to the voices of today’s youth, which include an article by Joan Braune and an interview with four youth conducted by Elisabeth K. Hess and Anthony M. Walker about being angry. Frank J. Mosca and Deborah S. Yost offer a unique perspective concerning teachers’ counteraggressive responses to youth who bother them. Their work is derived from the theories of several leading psychoeducators and educational historians. Philippe I. Dupont, a school principal, presents a personal reflection about a question that Redl posed in 1966 — Why should professionals care about what adolescents stir up in them? Listening to someone who is involved with troubled students all day is instructive.

Several professionals who had the privilege of working with Fritz Redl contributed to this issue. William C. Morse and Henry W. Maier talk about their experiences with Redl. Each article reveals the evolutionary process of Redl’s longstanding concepts of the therapeutic milieu and the Life Space Interview. Morse and Maier’s articles are fitting tributes to the 50th anniversary of Children Who Hate.

Redl first described the Life Space Interview (LSI) as a technique for listening to children in crisis at the time of the crisis. Redl knew that making angry, aggressive children wait to talk about a crisis during their scheduled weekly sessions with the therapist was counter productive. These children needed someone to listen to them and extinguish "their fires" on the spot. Since then, Nicholas J. Long has continued to use, teach about, and perfect this therapeutic intervention, renamed Life Space Crisis Intervention (LSCI). All LSCIs require concentration, listening and questioning abilities, and genuine concern for the welfare of the youth at that time in his or her life. Trying to restore a sense of what an angry and rejected child owns within and cares about is the focus of the LSCI conducted by Lisa M. Shepard and commented upon by Long.

Fewer and fewer programs are willing to take the time and risks involved in working with youth who are out of control and hostile. In this issue, several professionals describe comprehensive therapeutic programs that provide opportunities for troubled youth who have in essence been "exiled." Howard S. Muscott describes how Redl’s concepts are integrally woven into an after-school program, So Prepared for Citizenship, that helps youth whose "egos cannot perform" to develop self-control. Robin Troup describes how Albuquerque’s juvenile justice system deals with children. The program challenges prevailing attitudes about quickly ridding communities of delinquent children. Huda Aden and Sarah Leffler describe other ways that angry children are being served.

Stephan Lhotsky discusses the current rise of hate crimes and the development of right-wing extremism in Europe. Finally, in a book review column, John H. Hoover and Tammy Lynn Bailey highlight related works of interest to adults who are working with children who hate. In this issue, they offer a review of the writings of Lonnie Athens, a renowned criminologist who has asserted that "losing control" is outmoded as an explanation for violence.

We dedicate this issue to those individuals who work with the children and youth many adults consider "discardable."
 

Nancy Belknap, EdD, is professor emeritus at George Washington University in Washington, DC. While at the university, she has developed and coordinated Professional Development Schools (PDS) training graduate students to be teachers of students with emotional disturbance. These PDS are unique in this country. For 30 years, she has been a teacher and teacher educator in the area of emotional disturbance. As a clinical teacher educator and in the tradition of Fritz Redl, she has remained close to the best source of information — children and youth. Dr. Belknap can be reached at e-mail: njbelknap@earthlink.net
 

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Brendtro, L, K., & Long, N.J. (1996). A crisis of conscience. Reclaiming Children and Youth, 5, 129—135.

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