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home journals Relational Child & Youth Care Practice ISSN 0840-982X VOLUME 19 NUMBER 3CONTENTS Editorial: Normal is as Normal does 3Carol Stuart From Count Chocula to Sleeping in Coffins: 5Vampire Symbolism and its Inner Meanings for Understanding Youth Bruce Ballon and Joseph Vincent Mobilio
Body Modification – Just the latest trend? 18Michelle Koroll Peer Review and this Journal 20Thom Garfat Expectations of Normality 21Carol Matthews Walnut Bob 24Thom Garfat Hardcore Punk: Hidden Lineages, Hidden Traditions: 27Evocations of a youth subculture shown by youth Hans A Skott-Myhre Book review: Challenging, frightening: The ADHD Fraud 31Jack Phelan A Brief Conversation Using Solution Focused Principles: 32A Case Study Patricia Kostouros
No longer a patient 39M. Noel Valuing Us 41Leanne Rose Sladde Certified Mail 43Carol Stuart Fit to be trained 48Garth Goodwin Maybe you smiled for the rest of the day ? 59Some comments on relationships and their infinite variety Karen VanderVen New book: Five elements of Healing Spaces 56Carol Stuart Sunset to Sunrise: The Midnight Hours 58Maggie Jones EDITORIAL Normal is as Normal does When my daughters were smaller, 10 and 8 years of age, the oldest asked to colour her hair. I considered her request to dye her hair RED to be a little “ab”normal for a 10-year-old. I had never dyed my hair and I generally disapproved of children and teenagers doing this and thought that the rest of the community might also disapprove. Nevertheless, I bowed to the pressure and we used Henna – a natural and temporary product (or so I thought). Thus, the youngest proved that, for some hair types, Henna lasted a very long time and the oldest began a life-long relationship with hair colour. Over the years some or all of her very thick, long hair has been red, pale pink, fluorescent pink, blue, rainbow coloured, jet black, brown, golden blonde, white blonde (usually to better absorb the secondary rainbow treatment) and she has used Clairol, Henna, Kool-Aid, etc. It hasn’t really been a “passing teen-age phase” and I fully expect that at some point in her life she will be one of the 60 year old women that I occasionally see with pink or purple colour in their hair. She says it’s her “inner self” coming out. So what defines “normal”? When does it become “abnormal” and require “treatment” because it impedes a person’s ability to function in day to day life? When are groups of people part of a “sub-culture”, “counter- culture” or “pop culture” where they feel accepted and their behaviour is seen as normal, by peers, if not be the rest of society? Culture is the accumulated way of life for an entire society, represented by our life-style, our norms, values, institutions, and artefacts (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ Culture). Therefore, normal is represented by society’s collective definition of the rules and values for living together. Of course there is no everyday conversation about what our rules are. They are passed on through family and friends that we interact with, primarily at an implicit level and often through what we are allowed to do, encouraged to do, or prevented from doing as we grow up. Halloween is one of those “cultural artefacts” celebrated primarily in the Western World. It arises from a pagan Celtic harvest festival in Great Britain and was adopted in Christian culture. Much of what is represented in a culture has some type of religious or spiritual connection. Halloween, as a celebration, tends to be more a children’s activity though for some adults it is a time to party. Regardless, it’s a time for presenting the self as a fantasy self; a fairy princess; a vampire; a heavily tattooed biker; a favourite cartoon character – hero or villain. The next day, all returns to “normal”. * * * In this issue, several articles explore the boundaries between normal and abnormal. Dr. Bruce Ballon and Joseph Mobilio, in From Count Chocula to Sleeping in Coffins explore Gothic sub-culture and when vampirism might cross over that boundary. The very title of their article gives us an indication of how embedded in our everyday world the artefacts of vampirism are. This is what makes Goth a “sub- culture”, its daily representation in the rest of the world. Michelle Koroll (we hope she will become a regular columnist) explores the “art” of body modification and the question of when parents (and child and youth care practitioners) should be worried whether a behaviour indicates a cry for help that needs to be dealt with, or is simply an expression of “art” in today’s culture. Tattoos and piercing, which used to be a symbol of the underworld in North American society, have become increasingly popular among young and old. Body art has always been popular in other societies. Painting and piercing were part of traditional aboriginal ceremonies for many tribes in North America and are equally common among African and Eastern groups. Hans Skott-Myhre in a 2001 article on Hardcore Punk from CYC-Net examines the youth subculture, its potential as a counter-culture (one that might change the world), how history repeats itself and the lines between normal and abnormal become very personal. This issue also contains two contributions on brief solution focused therapy. Pat Kostourous illustrates how truly brief the approach can be and the potential that it holds in certain child and youth care settings. One of the principles of Solution Focused Therapy is to examine the strengths of the client and not to focus on labelling and pathology. Pathology, of course, implies a focus on the underlying disease and harmful abnormality (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pathology). M. Noel in Storying, a personal reflection on her experience with a therapist using brief solution focused therapy, presents us with the client’s perspective as well as an indication that this therapy may not be brief at all. It’s just the time with the therapist that’s brief. Solution focused therapy takes us away from defining what is normal or abnormal and focuses on the client’s experience and need for the behaviour. Abnormality is defined by statistical infrequency, distress (of the person or others observing the behaviour), morality, maladaptive behaviour, and the standards of society (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ Abnormality). So really, it’s all relative. Indeed, if someone from another world were to drop onto earth in my hometown on October 31 at sunset, they would have a very different idea of what’s normal in our culture.
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