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Issue 47  •  December 2002

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MARK KRUEGER: MOMENTS WITH YOUTH

Among the members of our research group, Joseph Stanley's style is the most free flowing. He lets his stories come out naturally as was seen in his first stories in this column. I think of him as Kerouac-like in the sense that he is a stream of consciousness writer, and in so being, he captures the essence of his experiences as a youth worker. The following story/poem is an example of his work, what he has learned, and his influence on youth.

In this column we simply share our stories without our interpretation, which is left up to the reader with the hope that the story will ring true with and shed new light on his or her practice. (If you are interested in learning more about our study, e-mail me at markkrue@uwm.edu.)

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I stroll down the street---

My mind races

Numerous thoughts---with no cohesion

It has been a busy day-one crisis after another-the next starting

Before the last finished

Remember to breathe

Slowly I breathe in and out

I picture the tension flowing out of by body

A couple of minutes later—the tension is gone

Still thoughts race through my mind

I’m picking up Bob

Bob has a lot of energy-and seems to have a strong affect on his teachers

He can be a challenge

I’m tired

Remember to breathe-I think about Bob-he can

Remember to breathe

I picture my center as I breathe-tolling toward the school

I laugh-one of us needs to be there

I pull up to the curb—backpack-coat going in every direction

The car door opens

Joseph-Joseph you’re late-I’m going to tell my Mother you left me

I left you—You told me to pick you up at 3pm

Yeah but I wanted you to pick me up early

Oh—I forgot to turn on my superpower mind reading today

Seatbelt

Seat belt is latched

At the same moment the radio is adjusted

Singing begins even before I hear the song

I slowly pull away—wishing I did have superpowers-to deal with the energy

I laugh—bob laughs

We slowly talk about school/family/his weekend

He speaks rapidly at times

At times I breathe

We move onto what worked for him today-what didn’t

I breathe

We laugh
 


For some of the youth I work with — being centered doesn’t happen for them. This can lead to barriers to them functioning in the community. One strategy that seems to work is to center myself, and providing a calming in the eye of the storm.


 

Joseph Stanley

 

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