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DEBATE
'Chastity czar' hopes teens will
embrace abstinence
The new chief of the federal program to promote sexual
abstinence — called the "chastity czar" — says he wants to make it
socially acceptable for American teenagers to just say “no” to sex. Wade
F. Horn, 50, assistant secretary for children and families in the
Department of Health and Human Services, says youths who don't engage in
sex now “don't feel supported in that choice.” “They believe the broader
culture sees them as odd, that they are strange if they commit to
abstinence,” Horn said. “I want to give young people a fighting chance
to make the healthiest choice to preserve their futures.” Horn says he
also wants to reach teenagers who have already been sexually active with
the message that “you no longer have to be sexually active.” He said he
rejects the notion that “once the ice cream is out of the freezer, it's
already melted.” A clinical child psychologist who led the Bush
administration's initiative to promote healthy marriages and oversees
the Head Start program, Horn says he's “passionate” about teenage sexual
abstinence. “I'm a goal guy,” he said. “The only thing that's
unstoppable is time.” Horn blames Hollywood for giving “irresponsible”
messages that casual sex has no consequences. “It's undeniable that the
only 100 percent effective way of preventing pregnancy and sexually
transmitted disease is to be sexually abstinent,” Horn says.
The huge government spending bill that Congress again
takes up this week contains an additional $30 million for
abstinence-only education, bringing the total to $168 million for the
2005 fiscal year that began Oct. 1. Horn will oversee $50 million that
goes to states and $105 million that goes to community organizations to
teach abstinence to 12- to 18-year-olds. Congress first set aside money
for abstinence-only education programs in 1999, allocating $80 million
in grants to religious, civic and medical groups. Horn is sharply
critical of comprehensive sex education programs that include
information about using contraception and condoms, saying they create
“mixed messages” that can cause confusion. For example, he says,
“Imagine I am leaving on a trip and my wife says, 'I love you and I
trust you, but bring a condom in the briefcase just in
case.'” “As a psychologist, I'm saying the best prevention messages are
focused and consistent. You don't hand out low-tar cigarettes to youths
when you are saying it's not a good idea to smoke.”
Mike McGee, vice president of education for Planned
Parenthood Federation of America, disagrees. Horn's approach is “like
the stern dad who says I'm in control of my kid, and I'm going to tell
him not to do it and that's going to be sufficient — and it's just not,”
McGee said. “To really nurture kids you've got to give them some
guidance and some help to make some critical decisions.” McGee says
abstinence advocates ignore reality and that teen sexual activity is
inevitable. Statistics from the Centers for Disease Control and
Prevention show that 61 percent of graduating high school seniors have
had sex. Cynthia Dailard, a senior public policy analyst for the Alan
Guttmacher Institute, a population control advocacy organization, said
young people who hear an abstinence-only message and take a virginity
pledge are less likely to use contraception when they have sex. “It's
hard to keep a condom in your pocket when you've promised not to have
sex,” Dailard said. A report issued last week by Rep. Henry Waxman,
D-Los Angeles, questioned the effectiveness of the federally funded
abstinence programs. “I don't think we ought to be using taxpayer money
for any program that's not proven to be effective,” Waxman said. “At a
time when we have all these sexually transmitted diseases exploding all
around us, particularly HIV-AIDS, we need effective programs.”
Independent researchers have been unable to prove any
significant benefits from abstinence-only education. At Columbia
University, researchers determined that teenagers who take virginity
pledges may delay sexual activity, but 88 percent have sex before
marriage.
Waxman says the abstinence programs are “driven by ideology, not
evidence of effectiveness.”
Responding to the claim that there is no data showing abstinence is
effective, Horn says: “I don't need a study to show me that the only 100
percent effective way to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted
disease is abstinence.” Horn warns parents that young people are at risk
of sexual activity during the “dangerous” hours right after school. “If
they are doing positive things after school, they can't be having sex in
the bed while their parents are at work,” Horn said.
Leslee Unruh, president of the National Abstinence Clearinghouse in
Sioux Falls, S.D., a nonprofit advocacy group, said her organization
emphasizes that abstinence is “cool” by promoting T-shirts that say
“Touch your Dog not Your Date,” music by former Miss America, Tara Dawn,
who sings “I save myself for you,” and tattoos that say “I'm worth
waiting for.” “We have young people who have been damaged emotionally
because of becoming sexual active,” Unruh said. “They get their hearts
broken, and they do respond with some really negative outcomes such as
suicide and depression. When kids get good information on skill building
and basic decision-making on relationships, they do wait until
marriage.”
Judy Holland
12 December 2004
http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/chronicle/a/2004/12/12/MNGPJAAR7M1.DTL
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