NEW ZEALAND

Violence at home creates lasting scars in children

Almost three-quarters of children who see family violence have behavioural and physical problems, a study on domestic violence in Auckland shows. More than half have sleep-related difficulties such as nightmares and bed-wetting and more than a third have problems at school. The findings come from the evaluation of a one-year pilot programme run by the Auckland Domestic Violence Centre.

They were released to the Herald just days after a Takanini 10-year-old called the police to say her mother was being badly beaten at home. The child's mother was last week taken to Middlemore Hospital with a broken jaw after an argument with her former partner and was unable to speak for three days.

Researchers from the Auckland University Injury Prevention Research Centre said two-child families made up most of the sample of 89 families in the 54-page evaluation. Most of the children were aged under 7 and a quarter of the cases were from Mt Roskill, Ellerslie, Glen Innes or Panmure.

The executive director of the Auckland Domestic Violence Centre, Jane Drumm, said advocates found that many of the children were withdrawn, cried a lot, felt guilty they were not doing more to help their mother and suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder. Some were distracted from their schoolwork and were truants, hyperactive or bullies.

“What it is doing is stealing their childhood from them,” said Jane Drumm. “They are getting involved in issues they have no understanding of and have no way of controlling. They are just swept along.”

She said the programme had been successful, but was only a pilot and would need more money to continue. Most of the children had had violence happening in the home for more than a year and it was usually caused by the children's biological father. Although in more than half of the families there was no evidence of the children being hit, more than half of the children experienced emotional or psychological abuse. The evaluation also showed that in over half of the families, children feared to leave their mothers alone.

When violence occurred in the home, nearly half the children spontaneously stayed with their mother, four in 10 children left the room and one third asked their parents to stop fighting. Three in 10 children left the house, the room or locked themselves away.

A child advocate at the Commissioner for Children's office, Trish Grant, said the small sample was in line with other research on domestic violence and children. Most research showed that children and babies exposed to family violence suffered ill-effects on their ability to learn, and their emotional, psychological and cognitive well-being.

“There is no question that children being exposed to family violence does affect them and it does affect them in a variety of ways, which can be both immediate and long term.”

Child abuse often occurred with family violence, she said, and early intervention was critical. “The earlier professionals can respond to those concerns, the better.”

How the project works:

  • The Government and charity-funded programme involves a child crisis intervention team of 18 supervised advocates.
  • They go into homes to help children who have recently seen family violence.
  • In many cases, families are referred to the team by police.
  • Advocates speak to the families and make sure there is somewhere safe for the children to go, like the neighbours, if there is more violence at home.

By Bridget Carter
25 March 2004

 

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