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SCHOOL SHOOTING
Rebuilding normalcy in Red Lake
The tragedy at Red Lake High School in Minnesota
raises hard questions. How does a boy become so isolated and despairing
as to end 10 lives, including his own? Can we truly discern what is in
the hearts and minds of our most troubled youth? How do we deal with the
reality that caring adults, thoughtful planning, and metal detectors
cannot always prevent tragedy?
Equally important, how does a small community wrenched by violence
recover and re-establish itself as a place of safety and hope for its
children? And how does the school, the scene of such devastation, return
to a place of learning and growth? Schools that experience violence like
this bear the unusual role of being both the focus of the tragedy and
the nexus of its recovery. In normal times schools serve as a
centerpiece for community activities and provide key services to
students and families. School staff in Red Lake will play a pivotal role
in helping students, their families, and each other cope with the
aftermath of last Monday's shootings.
As members of the National Emergency Assistance Team,
a group of school psychologists trained to respond to school crises, we
have witnessed the anguish of communities similarly affected by profound
acts of school violence. We have also seen the incredible resilience and
nobility of the human spirit in people's capacity to help one another
and overcome their trauma with proper support and time.
Four of our colleagues were invited into Red Lake to work with the
school staff and tribal leaders to help assess the mental health needs
of the community. Our volunteer role is to facilitate the first stages
of healing and equip the school staff with the initial skills, planning,
and resources to do the hard work in the months ahead. Critical to this
process is respect for the specific character, values, and traditions of
the community, as the healing process must necessarily emanate from and
be supported by this culture.
A number of priorities drive the first stages of
crisis response. First is re-establishing a sense of emotional
equilibrium and security. Although the violence is over, children need
reassurance that they and their loved ones will be all right. And, much
like the oxygen mask on the airplane, adults need their own emotional
safety net secured in order to help the children in their care.
Reconnecting families, counseling, and spiritual activities are
essential to this process. Balancing these needs is precarious. One of
the roles of crisis responders is to give caregivers, as well as
students and families, the chance to express their feelings individually
or in groups. The process can be emotionally draining (at Columbine, we
went through 24 boxes of tissues during three days of staff meetings)
but inevitably beneficial.
Third is the imperative to bring the students back to school (even if in
another building) as soon as reasonably possible. Family is the first
source of support for most youngsters but youth also need to be with
their peers, to share their reactions, and to connect with their
teachers. Isolation is a real risk after a crisis, especially in
communities where natural support systems may be fragile due to poverty,
rural issues, extended families, or other risk factors. Red Lake
principal Chris Dunshee eloquently described the need ''to gather these
children and hold them close to us, let them know they are loved."
Fourth is training adults to recognize symptoms of severe psychological
trauma. Reactions to trauma vary from person to person and can change
over time. Children and adults may experience symptoms of numbness,
difficulty sleeping or eating, fearfulness, depression, confusion,
anger, and increased aggression. Some will suffer recurring, intrusive
thoughts of the tragedy, such as one girl after a different school
shooting who asked, ''How do I stop the VCR in my head?"
The risk of suicide and violence can also increase,
requiring vigilance over the coming months to identify and safeguard
those at risk. Anniversaries, birthdays, and graduations will all be
particularly vulnerable times.
These are not easy challenges. Within them the business of learning and
living must go on. School staff and students will return to math and
reading but in the context of healing. They will continue to grapple
with the hard questions we all share about creating safe and truly
embracing school environments. The journey for Red Lake will be long and
at times painful, yet illuminated by the hope of other communities that
have come through similar tragedies.
Rich Lieberman and Ted Feinberg
28 March 2005
http://www.boston.com/news/globe/editorial_opinion/oped/articles/2005/03/28/rebuilding_normalcy_in_red_lake/
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