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Independent or Indigent: What's next
after Foster Care?
Eighteen years old to a lot of parents is an extremely
transitional and important time in their children's' lives. This means
that their child is in or graduating from their senior year of high
school and they are getting prepared for college; buying bedding for
their dorms, buying flips flops to wear in the communal bathrooms, and
saying goodbye to the wonderful relationships made in high school.
This is the case unless of course you were raised by
the Foster Care system in America. Most teens have the chance to
transition from adolescence reliance to adult independence slowly.
Typically these years allow many years for education, professional
experimentation, and emotional growth. Teenagers in foster care enjoy no
such luxuries of time and support. Most are foster children one minute
then completely on their own the next.
Every year the number of children emancipating from
the foster care system is growing, and the number of resources for those
children is stagnant. Because less than two percent of sixteen-eighteen
year olds get adopted in America, a plan needs to be in place for them.
According to the Children's Aid Society, each year approximately 20,000
children in foster care are discharged to live on their own.
Because these teenagers are already weighed down by
their experiences with neglect, abuse, or even abandonment, they don't
have the knowledge to leave the system. They are expected to be
productive and self reliant, not to mention completely self sufficient!
Who at eighteen is? Most teens at age eighteen aren't because they have
parents to help them and guide them-but those who leave foster care
rarely have adequate support.
The fact of the matter is that people adopting want
cute babies, not troubled teenagers. However, if those adopting want to
make changes in others lives, they should consider thinking about the
teens. Majority of teens who leave foster care don't have the knowledge
and skills to go about getting employment, continued education, medical
insurance, or even housing. Three out of ten homeless persons in America
have a foster care history, and unfortunately without resources and
services in place for the teens that leave foster care, homelessness
happens more than not.
Without families and other dependable adults in these
teens lives, these people are not only at high risk of homelessness;
they also risk joblessness, illness, incarceration, welfare dependency,
early childbearing and sexual and physical victimization. If these are
options for those teens emancipating from foster care, maybe its time
for Americans to wake up to what is going on around them. As citizens,
we should be concerned with whether this is really a freedom for these
children at all.
Emancipate is such a powerful and strong word used
throughout American history; now, we just need that firm and empowering
connotation to follow as it once did. What we need are programs designed
to help prepare these teenagers for emancipation. Programs like
Norfolk's Independent Living Program for Foster Care Youth and programs
like the One Stop Model headed by the Children's Aid Society. With
career planning and housing assistance, these teens could really be on
the upward road to success.
Our society really has failed teenagers growing out of
the foster care system. Although it is a small population, which could
be contributing to their lack of support- these teens encompass a highly
vulnerable population. To set up programs to aid these teens in
education, health care and even money management, we could do a world of
good. It is something to think about, especially if you are a mother or
father with children of your own. To imagine that happening to an
eighteen year old is unreal to most people. Eighteen is entirely too
young to be faced with the troubles that these teens have to swim
through, and hopefully stay afloat.
It is time for the public to gain attention to this
growing problem in America today. America- the land of the free and the
home of the brave...or the land of the limited and the home of the
gutless. No one should want to fall into the latter category and we
should all want to see change happen in the child welfare system in
America.
Kathleen Varner
22 October 2006
http://www.opednews.com/articles/opedne_kathleen_061022_independent_or_indig.htm
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