YOUTH SUICIDE IN NEW ZEALAND

Is it time for a change?

The ‘S’ word. Shhh, don’t mention it.

For decades and probably longer, media have been warned off or shied away from just about anything to do with suicide. The Ministry of Health’s Youth Suicide Prevention Strategy warns journalists that talking publicly about it may push some vulnerable individuals over the edge.

“This phenomenon is usually due to the power of suggestion and normalisation presented in these media representations,” it says.

But the strategy forgets that for the few that give in, many, many more are desperately unhappy. And despite the ministry’s best intentions, the evidence that talking about suicide causes it is not strong. New Zealand’s rate was soaring well before the media even started to broach the subject.

Apart from the guidelines, reporting on suicide is also governed by law. When a death appears to be self-inflicted, the local coroner is required to investigate. And from one coroner to another, what they allow the press to report is inconsistent. It is their decision. Some impose a blanket ban on any reference to the manner of death, believing families must be spared any further suffering. But often, families want to speak out – to share their story in the hope of helping others. It must be time for a change.

The old system of pretending it isn’t there and hoping it goes away clearly isn’t working. Kiwis, more so than any other developed population, continue to kill themselves in unprecedented numbers. And it is mainly our young men. They are four-and-a-half times more likely to attempt it and about 10 times more likely to be successful than our young women. Is society failing them?Why are they brought to the edge and their peers not?

There are loads of questions and too few answers. Society needs an attitude change, the dialogue has to start. Suicide is the ultimate selfish act, wreaking devastation and trauma on the family and friends left behind. Earlier this year, former race relations conciliator Gregory Fortuin spoke at the funeral of a Whitby teenager.

“I ask you, I beg of you to consider your choices and the consequences for all your loved ones,” he said before the gathering that included 300 students from Hutt International Boys’ School.

“You are kidding yourself if you think this is the end…no matter how dark the night might be, I ask you if you could honestly look your precious family and friends in the eyes and say this is an acceptable choice.”

We are all affected, we all care and the vulnerable need to know that it is okay to ask for help. It is available – at least, to some. Any psychologist will tell you that mental health is desperately under-funded in New Zealand. Those at the coalface are over worked, under paid and reach burnout quickly. The New Zealand Mental Health Commission says at any point in time 20 percent of the population has a mental and or behavioural disorder. The government’s National Mental Health Plan aims to meet the needs of five percent of our youth. The reality is the funding doesn’t stretch anywhere near that far.

14 August 2004
http://www.mytown.co.nz/story/mytstorydisplay.cfm?thecity=wellington&thepage=news&storyID=3584153&type=nzh


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