Remembering Our Friend Frank Delano (Frankie D)
Our CYC-Net family are deeply saddened by the passing of our dear friend Frank Delano, affectionately known to many of his friends as Frankie D. His sudden departure leaves an emptiness in the hearts of those who knew him, but also deep gratitude for the kindness, generosity, and friendship he so freely shared with all who knew him.
Frank understood the importance of connection, sharing, friendship, investing in something greater than oneself - and of course in living 'la dolce vita'. Through his generosity and support of CYC-Net, he helped strengthen a global community committed to improving the lives of children, young people, families, and those who care for them. His contribution was more than a gift — it was an expression in the belief in people and in the possibility of creating a better world for people everywhere.
We will remember Frank not only for what he gave, but for who he was — a warm-hearted friend whose kindness touched so many lives. His legacy will continue through the many connections and opportunities he helped make possible. With love and affection, we honour his life and celebrate his everlasting impact.
Thanks, Frankie D. You will be so missed.
See the July 2026 edition of CYC-Online for a fuller tribute to Frank.
CYC-Online
July 2026 (No. 329)
Editorial Comment: 5th CYC World Conference | Martin Stabrey
Reflections on “Healing through Connection” | Agustin Castante III
La Dolce Vita: A Life Fully Lived - Remembering Frank Delano
Relational Practice Explored Further | Jack Phelan
It’s Not for Everybody: Why God Created Probation - An Essential Ingredient in Treatment | Dr. Lorraine E. Fox
The Pancake | Vanessa Hillier
Some Foundational Thoughts for Child and Youth Care Practitioners | Erin Manning
What is Teaching Teens About Love? Lessons about love are everywhere, but new research supports parents stepping in | Cheralyn Leeby
Grief and Nihilism | Hans Skott-Myhre
Stories from the In-Between
Relational Practice Teaching Tales
Thom Garfat, Ph.D and Heather Modlin, Ph.D - editors
Human beings are, by nature, storytellers. Most of our communications are via stories. We share our desires, our wishes, our experiences via stories. Child and Youth Care workers are exceptional storytellers. We were, initially, storytellers out of necessity. In days gone by, there were no college or university programs, no training programs, no organised way in which to teach us how to be with young people. So, we taught each other – through stories.
This collection brings Child and Youth Care practice to life through vivid, relational storytelling that captures the complexity and beauty of everyday moments. Rooted in authenticity and genuine connection, these stories highlight the power of presence, curiosity, and humility, reminding us that meaning is often found not only in what is said, but in what is quietly held. With a focus on reflection and growth, the narratives invite readers to challenge assumptions, honour silence, and reconsider perspective, while emphasizing the importance of mattering in the lives of children, youth, families, and practitioners alike. Shared experiences become catalysts for transformation, illustrating how young people can move beyond their self-perceptions and how practitioners grow alongside them. Thought-provoking and deeply human, this book rekindles passion for Child and Youth Care practice and affirms that learning is lifelong.
Jenny McGrath, PhD – Department
of Child and Youth Care, MacEwan University, Canada
This is a powerful collection that honours the moments where real connection
happens. Through these short stories, the writers gently illuminate
the everyday courage, compassion, and presence at the heart of child
and youth care. Each tale invites the reader to pause, reflect, and
recognise the profound impact of relational care that is often found
in the quiet, in‑between moments. This book is a joy to read and a moving
reminder of why this work matters, celebrating the deep and lasting
difference we make in the lives of others.
Simon Walsh – Chief Executive Officer, Allambi
Care, Australia
Stories have always been a foundational part of Child and Youth Care
practice. They are a great way to teach and give examples of what the
texture of relational practice is. I read this book with such pleasure.
The wide array of people who have contributed to this book brought together
so many experiences and insights into what quality Child and Youth Care
is as well as giving a sense of the history of Child and Youth Care.
The critical thinking questions at the end of the stories also added
so much to the learning.
Frank Delano – President, Professional Package
Consulting, USA
