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WORKING WITH TROUBLED KIDS
F.G. Lennhoff, writing over forty years ago, refers to issues still commonplace today
ur children’s greatest trouble, as we have often said, is that they cannot form healthy relationships with others. This affects their learning ability. The normal child, secure in his background, is able to widen out, explore and compete, is less involved in human contact with the teacher and can accept the subject matter he is being taught more easily. If not given continuous encouragement, the maladjusted child, who is without the reassuring background of a stable home, is afraid of the slightest frustration and therefore cannot make an effort. At school, the normal child works, at first, more for the adult than for the subject. His learning difficulty usually begins only when he has to learn something of which he cannot see the use, but his trust in the adult is such that he can be persuaded and encouraged to widen his horizons and gradually reach maturity towards the matter of learning. The maladjusted child, however, lacks this confidence in the adults who teach him. His complex attitude towards adults makes him identify them with the subjects they teach; since he distrusts them, he soon learns to distrust the subjects as well and consequently learning of any type becomes very difficult for him. He cannot explore, is afraid of all things new and therefore cannot mature any more in his capacity to learn than he can in his emotional development. The recognition of a teacher as a leader, someone with whom the child can identify himself and want to emulate, is the first vital step towards learning — only in this way can a child reach a sufficiently receptive state to make academic progress. Unfortunately, the maladjusted child is rarely able to identify himself with an adult in this way. His resistance towards learning is generally very strong, particularly when be is required to learn in the formal classroom setting which may so often have been the scene of earlier unhappiness and possible feelings of humiliation. In our community, therefore, the classroom can form only a part of the approach to learning and general education. Just as everything about our life together has some therapeutic purpose, so many out-of-the-classroom activities are designed to further training and learning, but in a disguised form, like sugar on a bitter pill. We must devise many different methods to give children a chance to take things in, without the emotional tensions they have created in and around the classroom, until they are ready to take school in their stride, with the help of our specially patient teachers. At first, an apparently unorganized activity can begin to teach. One child may be able to work for a time with animals, or in the garden, and thereby obtain an outlet for his restless energies, and a sense of achievement, while the adults also working there can pass on to him information which widens out his ideas beyond the immediate task and its surroundings. At first another child may be so immensely restless that he needs some activity to help relieve his tension — if possible one that is useful to the group and consequently satisfying for him. Tasks as varied as beating madly at a carpet to get out the dust, or taking a sickle or bill-hook and slashing down a troublesome bed of nettles, are ones which have served a useful purpose to different boys at different times. Any kind of learning in a group has difficulties for our children, particularly if only one adult is in charge of eight or ten children. Each disturbed child wants all the adult’s attention, once he has been persuaded to endure it at all, and feels unable to share that attention with the rest of the group. He needs constant encouragement in performing even the simplest task, and the instant he needs adult help and it is not immediately forthcoming, he feels lost and unable to bear the situation. In moments like this he will give up or, if he is making something or writing or reading, will destroy the work before there is a chance to encourage him. The maladjusted child is often so immature that every setback in his efforts is a major disaster to him. He is unable to see that the process of learning is a series of experiments which sometimes go wrong and that there is no need to be afraid of disappointments. He is afraid of them, however, and so feels guilty because he has not come up to expectations. Whenever something does go wrong with his experiment, he is inclined to fasten the blame on to the adult concerned or on to other members of the group. This is not, as some people from outside our circle sometimes think, out of ‘wickedness’ or malice, but because he feels that his failure to achieve his aim is due to something he does not understand. He does not realize that his misadventure is rooted in his earlier unhappy experiences and so blames it on to the nearest external factors. * * * A teacher, asked for individual viewpoint on the matter of learning, gave the following opinion:
When two of our teachers were asked to sum up in simple terms the complicated network of qualities in the teaching staff which go to make up educational work at the school, the list emerged as follows:
It is all, like the general therapeutic
work we carry on, extremely difficult to pin down, to analyse, and to
set down in writing. So many circumstances go to make each tiny
situation — one’s mood, some underlying trouble of the individual, the
personal situation at home or letters from parents, the particular stage
of academic progress and individual taste or interest all play a part in
the particular method to be employed by the teacher at any moment. A
method so complex, in fact, that it really defies description, and is
best experienced at first hand. This feature: F.G. Lennhoff. (1960). Exceptional children. London: George Allen & Unwin Ltd. Pp. 73-75; 83-85
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