Fritz Redl (1902-1988)
originated the life space model of therapeutic intervention with
children who display angry and defiant behavior 1. His
methods were honed by decades of direct work with highly
aggressive youth. Redl observed that the same surface behavior
could spring from very different underlying problems, thus
requiring different interventions. In this classic article, Redl
identified four distinct problems that could trigger defiant
behavior 2. The four patterns he labeled have been
validated by subsequent research: 1) “developmental defiance” is
the normal quest for autonomy; 2) “defiance as a wrapping” is
aggression secondary to mental disorders such as autism or
depression; 3) “reactive defiance” is angry aggression; and 4)
“the defiant ego” is instrumental aggression.
Some “defiance” is part of the
normal growth process. It may even be a desirable though an
uncomfortable forerunner of a character trait commonly referred to
as “integrity” or “spine.” Other forms of defiance, however, do
overlap with the kind of trouble usually referred to as
“delinquency” and constitute a great strain on our communities.
What types of youthful defiance
should be differentiated in order to begin wise preventive and
therapeutic planning? We can differentiate a few of the outstanding
problems that usually sail under this heading.
Developmental defiance
In spite of all the talk about “adjustment,” we would not really
want children to “adjust” to everything all the time. If they did,
we would think they lacked “spine.” Healthy development on the part
of a child is fostered by strengthening not only his ability to
adjust to outside demands but also his ability to defend his own
integrity against wrong demands made by others. We want our children
to retain the capacity for intelligent rebellion — courage to stick
to what they believe in, even against strong-armed pressure and the
fear of becoming unpopular with the mob.
All traits that we want eventually
to see in our children must grow through a range of developmental
phases. “Intelligent rebellion,” too, needs leeway to be learned and
practiced. Of course, while being practiced, it often looks anything
but intelligent and can be very annoying to the adult who has to
live with it. The negativism of the child between three and five, as
well as the strong “emancipation” efforts of the young adolescent,
are normal phases in child development.
One of the nation’s greatest
problems at this time is to find out how to help our young people
stick to what they believe in, even in defiance of whatever opinion
or action might be popular at the moment with the rest of the
youthful crowd. Actually, a lot of behavior usually termed “defiance” is exactly the opposite. The 16-year-old who participates
in an incident of vandalism because he is afraid of being called a
sissy is not a defiant child. He is a coward, an over-conformist, a
spineless lickspittle for public acclaim. Submission rather than
defiance is the real problem at hand.
When behavior falls into the
category of “developmental defiance,” it presents us with an
educational challenge, but we must not be fooled into regarding it
as “delinquency”
Defiance as a wrapping
Some defiant behavior is quite clearly “unprovoked” or at least
seems so at first sight. I once knew a child who, when compulsively
hit by sudden intense spurts of fantasy images, would get up during
class and wander around, impervious to threats of punishment. He
seemed to do all this “just in order to spite authority” Yet nothing
was further from the truth. At these moments, he did not even
perceive the teacher’s presence nor that of the world around him. He
had no thought of being “spiteful.” It would have been easier to
help him if he had, for this child was out of contact with reality
far beyond the normal degree of childish daydreaming. This sickness
is worse than the usual “defiance.”
Defiance that comes as a “wrapping”
around some other disease is especially frustrating because in such
cases the techniques so often found helpful in dealing with other
defiant children are totally ineffectual, and the adult’s wrath at
the defiant behavior is apt to be increased by his fury at his
helplessness. Punishment is the most futile and most damaging
technique we could use. When defiance is a “wrapping,” the only
thing to do is to tackle the disease behind the wrapping. All other
efforts are useless.
Reactive defiance
Some youthful defiant behavior may be compared to the process of
regurgitation. If you pour poison or stuff pins down somebody’s
throat, his organism will probably rebel by choking reactions to
ward off the hurtful intrusion. Vomiting under such conditions is
not symptomatic of illness. On the contrary, it is the defense of a
healthy organism against hurt from the outside.
A lot of youthful “defiant” behavior falls into the same category.
It is not the outcropping of a corrupt or morbid personality, but
the defense of a healthy one against the kind of treatment that
shouldn’t happen to a dog but often does happen to children.
Such “reactive defiance” calls for
consideration not only of what’s wrong with the child but also of
what is wrong with what we are doing to him. Every case of really
pathological and dangerous defiance that I have had a chance to
study closely has had to do the wrong things consistently for a long
time to the children involved to produce such severe degrees of
disturbance. This means that one of our greatest preventive
opportunities lies in developing and applying greater knowledge
about the most advantageous setting for growing youngsters and in
helping adults toward maximum wisdom in their reactions to youthful
behavior.
The defiant ego
This, unfortunately, is the most neglected, although the most
serious, form of defiance. Whereas from the outside it looks very
much like other types of defiant behavior, at closer range it
reveals itself as a most pernicious and serious affliction.
Children with “defiant egos” act
destructively any time they so desire because they enjoy it. If they
want their “fun,” they are going to have it. Either they have not
developed those “voices from within” that would make them feel bad
about “fun” that is unjustly had at somebody else’s expense, or they
have developed very skillful tricks for putting those “voices” out
of commission should they tend to interfere. Diagnosis, however, is
not easy. The size of the offense or the intensity of the defiance
gives no clue to what type of defiance is involved.
This is the type of affliction that
may justifiably be classified as “delinquency,” even if the defiance
displayed does not seem to have any “legal” implications. The early
recognition of such afflictions and the determination of conditions
for preventive and therapeutic work with them constitute some of the
main themes upon which research is required today.
Summary
“Defiant” behavior by children seems to bring out the worst in
adults, provoking them to react with their own feelings rather than
with deliberate thought. The collective “suspicious antagonism” that
communities often display against “teen-agers” as “caste and class”
is likely to foster or increase a collective spirit of defiance
among youth itself. The difference between failure and success
depends on whether or not we gear our curative and preventive
measures toward the type of affliction involved.
Fritz Redl, PhD, (1902-1988) was a native of Austria who received
his early training in psychology and education from youth work
pioneers August Aichhorn and Anna Freud. He came to the United
States at the onset of World War II and taught for many years at
Wayne State University in Detroit, Michigan. Redl’s philosophy
guided the University of Michigan Fresh Air Camp which for a quarter
of a century trained professionals in work with troubled youth. He
headed a research project on aggressive children at the National
Institute of Mental Health. There he worked with Nicholas Long who
is senior editor of the journal Reclaiming Children and Youth and creator of the Life Space
Crisis Intervention training curriculum. Redl’s publications spanned
35 years and have been translated into many languages.
Notes
1. See Fritz Redl and David Wineman, Children Who Hate
(New York. Free Press, 1951); and Redl and Wineman, Controls From
Within (New York. Free Press, 1952). These books were
consolidated in the 1957 book, The Aggressive Child (New
York. Free Press).
2.This is excerpted from an article by Fritz Redl first appearing in
the January-February 1955 issue of Children, published by the
U.S. Department of Health, Education, and Welfare, Social Security
Administration, Children’s Bureau. It was reprinted as: Fritz Redl,
“Our Troubles With Defiant Youth,” in When We Deal With Children,
Selected Writings, pp. 409-417 (New York. Free Press, 1966).
For a discussion connecting Redl’s
clinical concepts to current research, see Larry Brendtro and Mary
Shahbazian, Troubled Children and Youth: Turning Problems into
Opportunity (Champaign, IL. Research Press, 2004).
This feature: Redl, F. Rethinking youthful defiance. Reclaiming
Children and Youth, 16, 1. 2007. pp. 33-35.