Abstract: This article outlines
a model of treatment for children, adolescents, and their families
who use residential treatment facilities. The authors describe the
set-up and operation of a residential program designed to strengthen
family competence and examine the implications for programming and
staffing. Emphasis is given to the overall integration of
residential treatment and family therapy in a way that supports
family integrity and responsibility.
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central idea of this paper is that residential treatment is a resource
to families. The children belong to the family, not to the residential
program. This is a significant paradigm shift in Canada, where the first
residential treatment units for children were opened thirty years ago
with little involvement from the child’s family. The idea at that time
was that residential treatment, apart from the family, was therapeutic
for the child. Long-term residential treatment, often as long as three
years or more, was thought to be curative for disturbed children through
milieu, group, activity, and individual therapies. There were no outcome
studies and little contact with families throughout the treatment
process. The "toxicity" of the family was banished and professional
nurturance put in its place.
By the 1970s family therapy was
becoming a presence as the voice of Minuchin, Montalvo, Guerney, Rosman,
& Schumer (1967), in Families of the Slums, questioned the
long-term value of treating children without their families. As more
professionals became trained in family therapy, they were less convinced
about sending the child away, with the accompanying implicit assumption
that the professionals were more competent to raise the child than the
family. Throughout this period and into the 1980s, most residential
treatment units added family work to the treatment of the child. This
was based on a child guidance model with the sharing of information
between residential staff and family, maintaining a focus on the child.
As the 1980s proceeded into the 1990s,
the length of stay in residential units had decreased significantly. As
we approach the year 2000, the issue of treatment in Canada is and will
be related to cost of "the bed." The good thing about the cost
perspective is that the family will increasingly be seen as the major
resource for the child with short-term units resourcing the family.
The George Hull Centre for Children and
Families has been operating with such a model for the past fifteen
years. Collectively, we have learned from Salvador Minuchin and the
faculty of the Philadelphia Child Guidance Clinic, Maurizio Andolfi and
the International Practicums in Rome, and the late Carl Whitaker. There
are many authors and teachers in the field of children and families but
we looked to these three child-centred family therapists to "unlearn" us
in pathology and to re-focus our thinking on the strengths of families
over time with multiple generations and extended kin, friends, and
neighbours. As we explored the resources of the family, it became clear
that the logical place for a residential unit was alongside other
resources of the family for the family to access as it needed.
There are four main ideas which
accompany the resource model. The first two ideas are related
specifically to the program. The second two have to do wit the families.
Program
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Residential treatment is a resource
to families, and as such it belongs to the family. The child belongs
to the family and not to the program. Families decide admission and
discharge to the program.
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The primary function is to enhance
the competence of families, to facilitate connectedness among family
members, and to strengthen the sense of belonging, which is at its
most vulnerable at the time of admission.
The program operates an a group format
in that it is structured for the whole group of children and
adolescents, and each child and staff follow the format on a day-to-day
basis. The structures and routines are geared at healthy, normalized
expectations that exact cooperation among the children and staff
members. With such clarity, it is possible to recognize and respond to
individual differences between children. This separates the exceptional
from the institutional, and although the rules are for everyone,
everyone is different. With recognition of individuals with their own
particular talents, skills, and needs, each child is expected to give to
and can expect to receive from the group. The format is not
pathology-based but strength- and performance based.
Our view is that no matter how damaging
a child’s experiences have been to his or her development, all children
strive toward health. Power struggles between the child and the staff
are not seen as productive. The program format lays out the
expectations, and the staff assist the child through the program.
Although subtle, this idea of assisting children in their difficulties
within the program, rather than requiring compliance, is significant.
Much time and energy is spent in planning, through weekly group
meetings, shopping, and preparation of food. In all program activities,
we find it essential to incorporate the child’s family practices and
preferences. Discussions with the child and group of children about
their families brings out the uniqueness of each child.
The program places the child’s contact with his or her family as a right
and not a privilege. For example, if a child wants to call her family
first thing in the morning, last thing at night, or anytime in between,
she is encouraged to do so. The program does not view children wanting
to call their families as manipulative. Families and children must be
free to call or visit at any time. Dropping in is a good idea. Telephone
times are built in at times convenient to the family, not to the
program. In fact, there is nothing more important in the program than
the family.
Program activities include the
family, for example:
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Sibling nights and sibling groups
that give room for the identified patient of the family to rejoin
his or her own generation, away from the scrutiny and concern of the
parental generation. By the time there is an admission, the siblings
are usually as "fed-up" as the parents with the behaviour of their
brother or sister. Work with the sibling group of the family is very
important for the future of the family, as this generation outlives
the parental generation and will either continue in an integrated
fashion or will prematurely develop the beginnings of cut-offs.
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Parent groups for feedback about
the program and coffee for fellowship with each other and with the
staff.
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Supper invitations for the family.
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Activity invitations (what would
you like to invite your family to this week?), discussed at the
weekly activity planning meeting.
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Father/son events. Mother/daughter
events.
The main programming job is to make the
residence accessible, welcoming, and supportive to families for their
full participation. The more isolated the program becomes from the
family, the more "incident" reports are filed as the staff attempt to
take over from the family during a period of increased isolation for the
child.
Family
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Families ask for residential
services when all other resources have been exhausted or depleted.
They feel helpless, furious, embarrassed, and not able to manage
their child. At the time of admission, the family has been like this
for a long time, since the birth of the child for some. Most all of
the family interactions and thinking have been around the
"identified patient." The family becomes totally organized around
every move of the child — sleeping, eating, schooling and social
life. All other family issues recede and are postponed.
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The task of the therapy is to hear
the story, find the strengths and the other set-aside issues. The
child has become the "field of packaging" for all other issues.
These issues are complicated arid have to do with loss, cut-off
relationships, immigration, unemployment. For whatever reason, the
nuclear family has become the only family and is isolated with few
resources.
The importance of the family story
leads to the discovery of lost resources. The child is the foremost
narrator of the story as she has been trying to help out the family by
being the lightning rod. She will lead the therapist to the difficult
areas.
As the therapist asks about her grandmother and discovers that she lives
in Scotland, she continues to follow the child’s view of how her mother
does in Canada with her own mother so far away. Does she write or talk
to her mother? When did she see her last? Will she see her again? How
can she tell when her mother is sad? For how many years has she been
sad?
Your grandfather died? How difficult was that for your father? What do
you think that he misses the most? How was that relationship with his
father? Does he ever talk about this? Who is sadder? Your mother or your
father? What is the marriage here? Whose side are you on? Whose side is
your sister on? Do you ever trade sides?
Whatever the story: grandparents in Ghana, dead siblings of the parents,
miscarriages; there is a bigger story than the child. The work begins
with the alternate story — family of origin, loss, gendered power,
economics. More people can be added to the sessions as consultants:
friends and family creating an enlarged fabric with more flexibility and
more possibilities for change. Family members become individuated and
not the united mass they presented at admission. The therapy
individuates them, divides them, subgroups them, genders them and makes
crevices where they were all filled in.
The therapy should not be predictable or it will match the family. It
needs to be surprising, confusing, and constantly shifting. The program
needs to match this with a strong core of programming that can then be
as flexible as the children need in order to to find a new place for
themselves in their families.
The culture of the George Hull Centre has been developed by the staff
members to include an expanded view of what is normal. Children and
adolescents come to the Centre having experienced horrendous abuse,
neglect, and inconsistency in their care. Their attachments, behaviours,
and view of the world can be seen as quite disturbed. We prefer to view
this as normal, given their experiences. This opens up many more
possibilities to intervene and provide new experiences from which
children will grow.
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