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IRISH IDEAS — NIALL McELWEE
There are various arguments put forward as to whether or not HIV/AIDS was genuinely a disease of the 1980s or if it had been around a lot longer. Indeed, my mother was a nurse practising in the UK in the 1960’s and is convinced that she encountered a patient there with what we now call HIV/AIDS at that time. Some brief statistics Language is important What is particularly tragic about AIDS is the shame and humiliation this illness often causes amongst individuals and family members when every ounce of energy is required for fighting the illness. It is not uncommon, for example, for patients who have AIDS to inform people that they have cancer. I know of a recent case of a friend of a family who was diagnosed with cancer and went to a hospital in Dublin for treatment (which also treats HIV and AIDS) and very soon a rumour had spread that he had AIDS. The damage and hurt we can do to one another never ceases to amaze me. I say this not because I think there is any shame in being diagnosed as HIV+, but because the reaction of many people, despite millions of dollars in trying to educate, is still woeful. In any case, I would ask that instructors, lecturers, practitioners and supervisors take some time out to reflect on the language they use when discussing HIV and AIDS. I have seen several postings on the CYC-Net asking about the ethics of informing staff members of a service user who is HIV+. I would answer simply that we should always use safe work practices so the only reason a staff member might need to know if a particular service user was HIV-positive is around medication. If we are safe and consistent in our practice we are safe and consistent. Finally, I would remind readers that anyone with a life-threatening illness deserves our support and goodwill. The language we use is crucial in brightening or darkening a person’s day. Niall
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